Girls are hard to read sometimes... - Page 2

TigersClaw · 08-14-2006, 08:55 PM

Well, the best time (in my opinion) would be at a high point in converstion, as a transition to a new topic, which means like, when you are both laughing at something and the topic seems to come to an end, give a brief pause and articulate the question.

Also, you may want to be weary being as the two of you are going back to school in a week. I can't be certain as I don't know the girl but a lot of times, if a girl is single heading back to school, she won't really be looking for anything before she heads back anyway, make sense? Just thought I would throw that out there as a heads up.

speedphreak · 08-15-2006, 12:37 PM

Should I leave the decision of what to do up to her? Or should I make a recommendation? This is because we are in NC. Theres a lot more to do than go to a movie...dinner could be great, but theres more "nature-like" activities to do here in the mountains. She did tell me, "we could go to the movies anywhere!" I did ask her to the movies over AIM earlier last week. So that might be out of the question.

-Chris

beef_bourito · 08-15-2006, 02:55 PM

well i'd suggest dinner and something that you think you'd both like. dinner seems to suggest something more serious. i'm assuming you don't go to school so i'd suggest getting this done as soon as possible since your chance might be gone once school starts, plus she might be with someone else next summer.

clawhammer · 08-16-2006, 12:22 AM

My suggestion: Ask her after you're done with the rafting. If you ask in the beginning and she turns you down, things will likely become awkward for both of you for the trip.

speedphreak · 08-16-2006, 08:44 AM

Well, guys...here I go! ahahaha...ha! lol, Todays the day! Yeah, I might have to put a hold on the "ask to dinner". I'm gonna go with the, "we should definently do something together before we leave" technique. Its less personal, and I MOST likely get a yes. Plus, its not thst I don't have a chance, she is going back to school at the beginning of next week, so am i. With that said, being good friends won't be so bad. I won't be chained down to one girl while going back to school. I'll continue to keep my options open and see what happens. Who knows, today may go amazing, which I hope it does! Wish me luck!

-Chris

nissan_240sx · 08-16-2006, 11:26 AM

good luck

beef_bourito · 08-16-2006, 02:25 PM

good luck, hope it goes better than last time i really liked a girl.

speedphreak · 08-16-2006, 05:12 PM

Well, guys/gals...I am back from my little adventure. It went very well, we both had a lot of fun. The rapids were kinda lame, but still a very neat sight and everything.

Now, on to what everyone, or at least the 5 or 6 of you have been chomping at the bit about......drum roll please!!!!..........Well, nothing happened. TADA! You know....I didn't ask her out again because I was getting the whole "friend vibe", which isn't a bad thing. I do like her, but I am not going to beat myself up about it. It may take time to get over the fact that she calls me Christopher....everyone calls me "Chris", just thought that was the cutest thing. Honestly, I wasn't really feeling it between us. So, thats it. I'm gonna assume the fetal position and cry a little.

-Chris

Muscletang · 08-16-2006, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by speedphreak

Well, guys/gals...I am back from my little adventure. It went very well, we both had a lot of fun. The rapids were kinda lame, but still a very neat sight and everything.

Now, on to what everyone, or at least the 5 or 6 of you have been chomping at the bit about......drum roll please!!!!..........Well, nothing happened. TADA! You know....I didn't ask her out again because I was getting the whole "friend vibe", which isn't a bad thing. I do like her, but I am not going to beat myself up about it. It may take time to get over the fact that she calls me Christopher....everyone calls me "Chris", just thought that was the cutest thing. Honestly, I wasn't really feeling it between us. So, thats it. I'm gonna assume the fetal position and cry a little.

-Chris

Well at first I wanted to come down on you because you just didn't go for it. Then you said this though, "I wasn't really feeling it between us." If that's the case, it's probably the best thing. What good is a relationship if there is no chemistry in it between the two people involved?

speedphreak · 08-16-2006, 11:06 PM

^Exactly! We can still have a great friendship. Its better than not being friends at all. Plus, I'm kinda happy I did't say anything, because it would of just been weird.

-Chris

Muscletang · 08-16-2006, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by speedphreak

Plus, I'm kinda happy I did't say anything, because it would of just been weird.

-Chris

Ask to see her boobs. If you look at them and still feel nothing, no weirdness or such, then yeah you did the right thing.

speedphreak · 08-16-2006, 11:44 PM

Funny you should say that about the boobs! hahaha! She wore a white shirt and a white training bra today during the rafting trip. She did in fact ask me if I could see anything through her shirt. I was like,"let me take a look." I mean, she gave me an invitation to look at her boobs! I looked, and well, I told her,"Nope, looks good to me." Nothing felt though, honestly..and it wasn't weird. I was kinda shocked she asked me to look actually!

-Chris

Toksin · 08-17-2006, 07:19 AM

Question: How old are you?

speedphreak · 08-17-2006, 09:22 AM

I'm 22. I will be 23 in September.

-Chria

pickle · 08-17-2006, 07:21 PM

And you still need dating advice?

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