Me=Problem talking to girls

[Nicole8188]

I have absolutely no advice other than what was already given.

Be yourself. That's it.

And not all girls like strong, confident, talkative guys. The first thing that always gets my attention is when a guy is quiet.

[MBTN]

Originally Posted by Oz

Oh GOD guys, the ice breaker is SO FRIGGING EASY - compliment them!

"Wow, have you had a new haircut recently? It looks great"

"That blue shirt really suits you"

Etc. Trust me, compliments will get you everywhere. Just don't sound fake and cheesy when delivering them. And make sure you SMILE.

Listen to this man! Women love compliments. However, don't compliment them on their physical features. They already know they look good, you don't have to tell them. However you do have to tell them you like their hair because chances are they spent an hour trying to make it look like that. And you of course appreciate that effort

And of course the easiest ice-breaker: "Hi."

do it!

[Nicole8188]

If any guy came up to me telling me I had nice hair...I have no idea what I'd do.

But I don't think it would end up with us together.

Find something to laugh about with her or something, compliments don't work on all women.

[quteasabutton]

gotta agree with nicole, i too would be like um...thanks? probably secretly wondering if he's gay cuz most straight guys don't notice things like hairstyles, much less care how it looks.

pick a topic that you both are comfortable with that u can go on from there. ur work is always a good starter, it could blossom from there, you get to know her better and boom u got more to talk about. if at first you don't succeed, don't let it get to you. just try again

keep us posted on how it goes too

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by speedphreak

I got a job at a day camp as a counselor for the summer. There are so many hot girls who work there. I just have a problem talking to them. I have no idea what it is. Most girls think guys just want in their pants, and thats it. I guess maybe its the rejection? I don't know. Any serious tips people? I would appreciate it.


-Chris

(1.) As stated, DO NOT kiss their ass or suck up to them. Women know their hot and get it all the time. Don't be like the other guys that go up to them and say, "baby you're so fiiiinnnnnneeee let me have your digits!"

It's certain that a whole lot of guys have gone up to them with wide open eyes, drooling, and acting like they'll lick their toes because they think they're so beautiful. Don't do that. It's old and tiresome to them.

Treat them as if you're just talking with friends. I know it's hard at first but just relax, BE YOURSELF, and act like you're not affected by how they look or anything. Come across as if you could care less.

Think of it this way as you talk to them and have this in your attitude, you're not going up to get to know them, you're going up to give them the chance to know you.

(2.) As you talk to them, tease them a little. Don't lay it on hard and come across as an asshole.

EXAMPLE

girl: can I sit there? *points to a spot right beside you but it's in the area of your lap*
you: you can't sit on my lap or crotch but I'll let you sit beside me

girl: *walks behind you and brushes against your back side*
you: you feel me up enough back there or are you coming around for a second pass?

(3.) Don't worry about rejection. Most girls aren't mean and will probably just say, "sorry, I have a boyfriend."

IF she does, just throw it back at her.

girl: drop dead you loser, you're too ugly to even stand a chance against me!
you: well when your fuckin tampax shrinks so your cooter is something smaller than a watermelon and you close that revolving man door you call a vagina I might come back and talk to you, until then you need to take about 15 bottles of midol

Just ask yourself, are you going to let a girl ruin your chance with another great girl? Or are you just going to laugh at the bitch and see it as her loss and go on?

(4.) Ice breakers? Anything can really work man. As somebody said, you got the perfect one since you're at camp. Is there a problem child, something funny happen, stuck up person there, bad camp food, bed bugs?

EXAMPLES

"Man what do you think of (kid)? He's a real trouble maker!"

"What's with this food? You'd think they'd give us something better than the wood we collected on that nature hike yesterday."

"Are the bugs biting you real bad as well? What do you do to keep them off because they're eating me alive?"

See what I mean? Find something you can both relate to and build from there.

(5.) Believe it or not, chicks are worried about their looks and self image too. You want to see them naked, they're worried they won't look good or you'll see some jiggly fat if you do.

So DON'T be worried about your looks that much. Make yourself decent I mean you can't get away with no showers or stuff. The point is your personality can take you farther than you know.




Finally, so you know some of this stuff was told by a guy who is in his early 30s. He's pretty goofy looking and most would consider his looks to be "below average."

HOLY SHIT his wife is a fucking fox though.

This guy told his wife on the first night they met, "woman shut the hell up you're getting on my nerves." She didn't like it but she found out after a while that he doesn't kiss hot women's asses, he's nice but treats everybody on the same level, as he talks he teases girls like he teases his friends, and uses his personality and not his looks.

[quteasabutton]

once again kyle..i <3 you. as always, right on the money.

[Mr Wiggl3s]

If all else fails, stuff your pants, and be nonchlaunt about it

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Mr Wiggl3s

If all else fails, stuff your pants, and be nonchlaunt about it

don't listen to him..

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by Mr Wiggl3s

If all else fails, stuff your pants, and be nonchlaunt about it

Alright speedphreak I'll bring out the most important information but this right here isn't it.

To make it easy I'll quote Mr. Goofy with the hot wife...

"all you got to do to make a woman love you is get down there, find the clit, and eat that sum bitch out until your face looks like a powdered donut"

[Nicole8188]

[Muscletang]

Wrong advice or not I still was in tears when I typed that just because it's funny how he words things.

That and I'm just saying, you don't need a big one to impress chicks, you know how to work it and you'll be alright. I mean look at lesbians.

[2.2 Straight six]

Originally Posted by Muscletang

"all you got to do to make a woman love you is get down there, find the clit, and eat that sum bitch out until your face looks like a powdered donut"

if the women you've been with have it in powder form there's something seriously wrong...

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Muscletang

Wrong advice or not I still was in tears when I typed that just because it's funny how he words things.

That and I'm just saying, you don't need a big one to impress chicks, you know how to work it and you'll be alright. I mean look at lesbians.

true, those silly lesbians don't know what they're missing out on. it is definetely about how you use it. idc how big you are, if you suck at it, size doesn't really matter. but this isn't even relevent cuz we're talking about conversation initiation, not getting in her pants.

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

if the women you've been with have it in powder form there's something seriously wrong...

As I said, the use of words kills me.

Anyway, this isn't advice about how to get laid or please a woman. As said, this is about helping this guy out with step 1, 2, and 3. I shouldn't have really said anything.

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

if the women you've been with have it in powder form there's something seriously wrong...

ya know, if he has to resort to blow up dolls stuffed with flour cuz all the women have been scared away by this weird dude in the bushes with a 12 inch camera, then that's his perogative