Infidelity

[taranaki]

Originally posted by YogsVR4
You can only be unfaithful to yourself. You are measured on your ability to do as you say. It doesn’t matter what the other person thinks – it only matters how it affects you.

Congratulations Yogs....that really cuts through the fog to the core of the issue.I am impressed,and grateful for your input.Helps to make sense of my question,as well as steer me towards the right answer.......not that any of this applies directly to me ,of course!

[SentraGirl]

I am young but I feel strongly about this issue so I will add my adolescense input. I feel infedility can be physical or mental. I understand that it's only natural for people to look and check out other people but when they do what I call a "double-take" is when you have to worry. I agree with the look but not touch thing but I feel the woman or man you married should be the most amazing person in your eyes, physically and mentally and when you find someone else more intriguing than your mate, I feel that's infedility in itself. And ofcourse if you so much as kiss someone else yeah yeah yeah that's infedility also but on a different level. I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense, I usually only understand what I write