Saw my ex tonight

[fredjacksonsan]

Any update on the situation?

[Steel]

not to jack your thread... but i saw MY ex from a while ago (if anyone was around they might remember that thread..2 years or so). It was...

awesome.

I'm still completley in love with the girl, which our sharing a bed last night only compounded the feelings. But i kept my lips shut and my hands to myself. We've had our outrageous fights since we broke up... but now i'm over that bullshit.. I'd much rather hang out with her and have a good time than have her mad at me.

Did it hurt? yeah.. a little. But i can take it now... heh.

cool.

sorry again to jack your thread, but i dont wanna start a new one for fear of the most recent ex finding it.

[jcsaleen]

Jay...

If you don't take this chance then you might regret it for the rest of your life... (Don't make the same mistake so many before us have done)

Good luck with what ever you choose to do but remember you can't rewind time... But you can act on chances that are in it...

[crayzayjay]

Thanks for the messages guys. Here's a quick update...

She called the next day and apologised for making me go through those feelings again. I told her not to be silly, she didnt need to apologise. Ive tried not to think about her too much since we met last week. I love her, but i honestly think time apart is the best idea right now. We were very dependent on each other and both have a lot of growing up to do. That'll only happen if we're apart. If i realise she's the one for me, ill go back and try to get her. It may not be possible then, but i'll take my chances.

Originally Posted by 96Civ

Wouldn't that be the issue?

Yes, that is the issue. I'm just not ready to settle down. Cliché, i know. But it's also the truth.

[RickwithaTbird]

From your last thread I remember that the main problem was her wanting to move in together. I personally don't see what the big deal is about living together. You've been with her for 5 years, and you've learned this person, and she's learned you, and she loves you for everything you are.

What's wrong with sharing a place with her? It doesn't mean you're married. You can still break up. The only problem I could get out of that is if you still want to see other girls.


So... I'm pretty confused about what your problem is. What do you need to figure out?