girls... wtf?

[fredjacksonsan]

And there you have it.

[-Jayson-]

oh man whats even worse is when women expect you to read between the lines! WTF! My gf does that to me ALL the TIME! She expects me to pick up these little hidden messages in everything she says and becuase 99% of the time i dont, she gets mad at me like i dont care about her or anything.

[fredjacksonsan]

Here's the subject:

Man is talking about subject.

Woman is talking AROUND the subject, and never gets to the point.

Man gets frustrated because the woman won't talk directly about the subject.

Woman gets frustrated because the man doesn't get all the hints she's been dropping.

Now both are mad.

[eversio11]

If she's a 6+, I say go for cooch

[ghostguy6]

Originally Posted by primera man

Show me any male that can work out what goes on in a womens mind

Honestly would you want to figure out the female mind? Think about it, if you knew everything that went through her head you would get bored. If you could predict every word she was going to say there would be no point in having a conversation would there? Sometimes its nice to know what they are thinking but not always. I love my G/F because she always keeps me guessing (several other reasons as well)

[fredjacksonsan]

"Keeping you guessing" is much different than "Failing to communicate"

[Jay!]

If she wants it to be a date, she'll be more likely to call it a date.

Tell her you're not that easy, and she'll have to buy you dinner, too, before she can get on your junk.

[sivic02]

Think about if some hot girl you know invited you to go do something with her, you would think sweet!, maybe if i play my cards right ill hook up tonight. Shes probably thinking that, the only thing is girls cant seem to keep thoughts inside their head, they have to share them with everyone.

[96Civ]

I never really got into the whole game playing thing between girls and guys. I had to have my best friend explain to me about 'the game' because I kept trying to be up front and mature about any 'relationship' and I guess I made all the girls too shy .. or, something... anyhoo, it never worked out for me.

[FairyDust]

Originally Posted by sivic02

Think about if some hot girl you know invited you to go do something with her, you would think sweet!, maybe if i play my cards right ill hook up tonight. Shes probably thinking that, the only thing is girls cant seem to keep thoughts inside their head, they have to share them with everyone.

I agree! Thats something I've noticed with my girlfriends, they don't keep their mouths shut. If I wanna tell a friend something that I DO NOT want to get around, I tell my best guy friends cause they don't go blabbing around. I only tell my girlfriends what I don't care that other people know.

Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

Here's the subject:

Man is talking about subject.

Woman is talking AROUND the subject, and never gets to the point.

Man gets frustrated because the woman won't talk directly about the subject.

Woman gets frustrated because the man doesn't get all the hints she's been dropping.

Now both are mad.

Dude that sounds like me and my husband, except he never gets to the point. He is the most indecisive person I have ever met. If I ask him something that only requires a yes or not answer, I have to flat out tell him after 10 minutes of arguing th just fucking tell me YES OR NO! lol. It drives me nuts.

Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

Well ec, I'd think that since she had that reaction she's into you.

Yeah I agree, if the girl wasn't into you she wouldn't have gone and said that. Or she hasn't gotten laid in a while and is thinking "omg maybe I'll get laid!"

[Blazing Rice]

"Now what we have here is a failure to communicate..."

I was once in a similar situation, except for a friend of mine set up a 'date' for one of her friends (who I did not know, but apparently this other 'friend' knew me quite well). She sold it to me on a platter of "We'll all be there", with the 'we' turning out to be me and that girl. That didn't work so well.

Women are impossible. Subtle hints do not work with me either, and I've explained this to my fiance (I'm a blunt person). I also explained that I'm not good with words or very affectionate...

And I'm begining to wonder if I need to call it quits. Unless she changes her expectations of me, I won't be able to support her emotionally. What to do...

[FairyDust]

My husband was sorta like that, he was actually more affectionate in the beginning and then slacked off. But he was never one of those guys to show up with flowers or anything to begin with. I "thought" I could change him. Hell no, I've given up. If I want flowers I buy them myself lol.

But unless your girlfriend comes to that same conclusion and just learns to deal with it, its always gonna disappoint her.

[CrzyMR2T]

hey i have a story about a girl i talked to.

i told her that we should hang out sometime, and she was like, i have a boyfriend.

[FairyDust]

^ hahahaha don't ya hate that when people right away think your trying to fuck them when you are just saying lets hang out? WTF is up with people?

[BleedDodge]

Just leave the women alone. Don't bother with them.