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View Poll Results: Is it OK to mess around with your best friends girl before and after a break up?
yes, it's ok (before and after) 2 4.26%
no, it's morally wrong 30 63.83%
it's ok as long as they've broken up, but not before 15 31.91%
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Old 12-26-2004, 08:06 PM
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

HAHAHHA,
this just happened to me,
I was going out with this chick, then i broke up with her, about a month went by and one of my good mates started dating her. But then I started talking to her again and I asked her out. Now i'm with her and he is pissed at me.

So I say go for ya fucking life.
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Old 12-26-2004, 08:33 PM
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I think its totally wrong of him. Like someone said if they had a falling out something, can see doing that. But if they were still best friends and shit, thats just fucked up.

And as far as calling the girl a skank, that depends on why she cheated. If she cheated cause she wasn't happy, then I don't think she's a skank. If she cheated just for sex, then ya she's a skank. I cheated once on a guy a long time ago, but it was cause I wasn't happy. But the guy I fucked wasn't a friend of my ex or anything. So it was pretty different and I dind't leave my ex for the guy. I left my ex cause he was a loser.
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i think it depends on how mature the parties involved are.


in a normal situation i say no. i wouldn't do it to a friend and i would hope that a friend wouldn't do it to me..... but i also think that there may be some circumstances where it would be acceptable.
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

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I'm gonna say FUCK NO! If that happen to me I swear i would disown my supposed friend, kick his ass, rips his nuts off and staple 'em to the bumper of his ride. And then slash his tires too and probably take a bat to his windows.


funny you should mention that...

"Glenn" and "Jim" aren't friends anymore, and "bob", a great mate of all of us now hates "Glenn's" ass for what he did to "jim". They had an argument about what a prick Glenn is.

I'm still friends with everyone, but I have no faith, or respect in Glenn, or Sarah, and I can never look at them the same way.

FairyDust: Cheating is Cheating. If you're not happy, you dumb them, not fuck them over behind their back. One day, a guy won't be happy with you, and he'll cheat, and you'll become the one with the broken heart, and you'll find out what it's like to have your life riped apart. If you're not happy, you talk to them, if you can't do that, then you shouldn't be together in the first place.

I don't think Sarah is a skank, but no one likes Glenn anymore for what he's done to Jim. He's still my "friends", but I wouldn't go as far as saying he's a "mate", anymore.
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

oz, its Bro's before hoe's. lol

Sounds like a shitbag thing to do to me. get with "Glenn"'s mom, and spread that around, would make for some good revenge.
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

Bros before hoes!
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Re: Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

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He's still my "friends", but I wouldn't go as far as saying he's a "mate", anymore.
I wasn't aware there was a difference...
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

pretty much already been said but i would never date a friends ex, let alone a best friend.
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Re: Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

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FairyDust: Cheating is Cheating. If you're not happy, you dumb them, not fuck them over behind their back. One day, a guy won't be happy with you, and he'll cheat, and you'll become the one with the broken heart, and you'll find out what it's like to have your life riped apart. If you're not happy, you talk to them, if you can't do that, then you shouldn't be together in the first place.
I tried to work things out over and over and over for 2yrs with the asshole. And then everytime I'd say ok I'm done he'd then try to work on things. And stupid me believed him so many times that he'd try to work things out. So its not like I just one day woke up and wasn't happy and went fucked some dude. I'm probably one of the last people to cheat on someone, because I am a very honest person. But like everyone I got shit in my closet, no one is perfect. And as far as hurting him, he never even suspected it happened. Which I do feel bad about, but I'm not honest enough to be stupid enough to tell him either. And don't assume it hasn't happened to me either.

It was a crappy relationship all the way around, the first year was great and then after that it just all went downhill. I was young, dumb and in love with him. But hey I learned.

And now I'm in an open relationship anyway, so we don't worry about cheating on each other lol.
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

bros b4 hoes. TO THe MAX.
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Old 12-27-2004, 01:35 AM
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

w3rd.

Fairydust: why didn't you just dump him?
2 years, damn.
Everyone knew "Jim" and "sarahs" relasionship was in the rust, we don't know why they hung on for as long as they did, so i don't blame you for "hanging on".


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like I said, cause I was stupid. Just took me a long time to fucking see it. I know everyone else saw it. And I have no idea about their relationship or anything, all I'm saying was hey maybe it was the same thing. Maybe she was just a total bitch. I dunno, your the one that knows that since you know them.
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

i was in a similar situation, except my "friend" was just trying to get my girlfriend to break up with me. She told me everything and i knew she wasnt cheating, i told him that if i ever seen his ass again i was gonna beat the shit out of him for being a fuckstick. He never bugged me or my girlfriend again.

He also denied everything she said...go figure.
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Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

D: EXACT same thing happened to me three years ago, word for word.

Can't stand the bitch now though, and sorta mates with the guy
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Re: Re: Is it OK to sleep with your best friends girl after they break up?

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My vote: Morally wrong.
I agree completely
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