Girlfriend Greif

[Raz_Kaz]

Well she's not allowed to come in my area (I'm higher up than she is, "restricted zone").

She has been over at my house when my family was over before, she just doesnt like being outta place. I usually make the phone calls when I can (she doesnt call me because she never knows when I'm home). I take time off work for her but she usually comes up with things to do (I do my part though, as in next week I planned something for us to do before I leave for vacation). Shes not going through anything major in her life right now, apart from being paranoid that im pushing her away and avoiding her. I dont see my family often (havent seen my uncle in over 6 years). its not my fault I work so much, it's not my fault I cant see her all the time, when I get the chance I go out with her, I even take the time to make time for her...yet its not enough

[kittedb18bt]

that is a ton of BS. i know nothing about relationships, but i hope everything works out for you.

[SniperX13]

Originally Posted by Raz_Kaz

Well she's not allowed to come in my area (I'm higher up than she is, "restricted zone").

She has been over at my house when my family was over before, she just doesnt like being outta place. I usually make the phone calls when I can (she doesnt call me because she never knows when I'm home). I take time off work for her but she usually comes up with things to do (I do my part though, as in next week I planned something for us to do before I leave for vacation). Shes not going through anything major in her life right now, apart from being paranoid that im pushing her away and avoiding her. I dont see my family often (havent seen my uncle in over 6 years). its not my fault I work so much, it's not my fault I cant see her all the time, when I get the chance I go out with her, I even take the time to make time for her...yet its not enough

well, then send her an email that says you too need to talk, and if she asks about what, just tell her now is not the place, and you will talk to her in the evening. maybe she is wanting to get that little ring on her finger, or maybe move in together....

[Raz_Kaz]

I snet her an e-mail at home telling her that I will be confronting her about this when she gets in...all I'm asking from her is to have the decensy to tell me it's over to my face and reminded her of the stupid reason she's using to end it




Funny part is that im more mad then sad about this whole ordeal....

[ghostguy6]

Raz, take it from me sit down and have a seroius talk with her, keep your cool. Ask her whats going on and why it is happening. Try to work something out, and if she desides the relationship is working out, move on. If she does break it off get her to at least say it on the phone or better yet face to face, emails always leave way to much room for dought. If she says its over, its over maybe give her one chance to get you back, women can change their mind after they have time to think, if shes going to break it off a second time, leave her for good! Most women Ive met WILL fuck with your head after they leave. Youll find the right one sometime, im sure several of you read my post about my last G/F, Ive found someone, if theres hope for me, theres hope for you. Hope this helps. Ive been there before so dont be afraid to IM or PM if you want to talk.

[Raz_Kaz]

yea I e-mailed her only to let her know that I'll be showing up in her area to confront her about this on my break and told her to tell me face to face it's over. That's all I ask her, not gonna make a big scene in front of her cooworkers. Just a simple
"yep, it's over"
I walk away and no one gets hurt

[Raz_Kaz]

*UPDATE

Well i went over to her area of the workplace only to discover she hasnt read her e-mials. I had a small oppurnitity to talk to her about what the hell is going on (this was really weird as we were both laughing ) I got across that this little incident started from a stupid reason, she got across that im still a jackass and that im not getting her point through my thick head.

I jst told her to read the e-mail and respond back face to face...if she does it over the phone/mail/IM I will make things hell as Ive done to the other ex's

[pickle]

Wow she sounds like a major drama queen. Can you imagine living with/marrying her? Cripes!

[Raz_Kaz]

Well...got home yesterday around 8-8:30. She was done work at 9, she came online only to be baffled at the state my internet is, so she decided to call me.

We were on the phone for over 3 hours last night (the longest Ive ever spent on the phone) talking about everything thats going on. I told her that she needs to stop acting like a child if she wants me to respect her as an adult. Many things were said, all in all its still a work in progress....i guess