Explain the fucking male mind to me...(Guy mods...stay the fuck out). :) Thank You!

[speediva]

Originally posted by RevHappy Cowgirl®


Hello? I don't see what you have to be thinking about, it's not like he's giving you alot to think about here from what you've told us, I think everyone would agree if you dumped his sorry a$$

It may take some mad guts to go through with it, but I think that in the long run, you will be happier.

[Scooter Bug]

Originally posted by RedY2KCivic
I'm really starting to double think this relationship..he's the longest I've ever been with anyone (1 1/2 years), but I'm seriously re-thinking some things....

i'm sorta in the same boat. We've been together for almost 2 years now, and i love him to death. but we fight wwaayyy to much. I just don't think we should be together. We would probably be happier that way. but I don't know if i have the guts to leave him.


becca

it's not really all the guys fault, but most of it is. RELATIONSHIPS SUCK!!!

[speediva]

Originally posted by Scooter Bug


i'm sorta in the same boat. We've been together for almost 2 years now, and i love him to death. but we fight wwaayyy to much. I just don't think we should be together. We would probably be happier that way. but I don't know if i have the guts to leave him.


becca

it's not really all the guys fault, but most of it is. RELATIONSHIPS SUCK!!!

I may be getting back together with my first "true love." I've gone through 4 guys in the last year and found nothing remotely similar to what I had with him. So I'm just one big ball of right now! But anyway...

Gee, there is one solution. This guy I"ve had a mad crazy crush on for months has it all worked out with his "ex g/f" you see, they are (by his exact definition) "Everything but the title" so they live together, hang out together, *ahem* together, but aren't officially dating. This is why tangie has less than a snowball's chance in Hell with this guy. He seems to think it's the best thing since presliced bagels, and he says they don't fight anymore...

Take it for what it's worth, but I still think it's best to fully get out of those dregs. The same old routine is just that... the same and old. Find something fresh.

[Spunkymonkey]

yeah...guys can be annoying...

I broke this guy's heart the other day well shot him down to pieces...and I didn't even mean too it was sort of an accident, I sent a sms intended to go to my best friend, and accidentally sent it to him by mistake....

anyway....another to add to the black list....LOL

He was a psycho and real weird anyway...

I mean seriously the guy was bugging me to try and get me to keep my petrol dockets so he can use them to claim it back on tax....I'm like thinking WTF???? who the hell is he, to ask me for that...its not like he's family, or my best friend or something...just some guy I met once, and wasn't interested in meeting again.

[speediva]

Let's be honest here. (most) GUYS SUCK. That's all that needs to be said.

[boingo82]

I'm kinda in the same boat too...
The bads:
He owes me money all the time. Right now $200 or so. He pays back but I never know when he will.
He smokes weed on occasion (which makes me SICK). He's cut back a ton, but hasn't quit.
He's had 5 jobs in the past year. He tries hard to keep them...and maybe it's the lousy economy here, but I'm getting sick of it.
The jobs he does get are crappy, then he complains about them and the low pay. But he refuses to try for any better jobs.
He eats all of my food. I mean ALL of it.
He gets really weird whenever we're around friends, or if family visits at my house..maybe he feels threatened? I don't know.
He didn't have his license for the first year I was with him, then finally in Feb. got it. It had been suspended 3 years ago because he did something dumb.
He's about $8000 in debt.
Since he's always broke, he only pays for maybe 1/4 of everything. And, he never gets me gifts. I'm not greedy, but we've been together for 1 yr 4 months and I've only seen ONE rose, and it was on my birthday and I had to ASK for it. And I give him presents and stuff all the time.
He's lazy. He watches too much TV (and I watch too much TV, but half as much as him)
We have never, and I mean NEVER gone on a romantic-ish date like a picnic, or whatever. I basically have to plan if I want to do anything.
He doesn't have a car and has to borrow mine. Before he had his license I had to drive him everywhere.


The good things:
He makes me feel attractive. All the time. He always tells me I'm cute, beautiful, whatever.
He gets along with my family. They like him.
He worships Infinitis. (Yes, that's important.)
He always wants to spend time with me.
We have Rubik's Cube solving races, and we're perfectly matched speed-wise.
He will sit and do puzzles with me while we watch TV. (Better than just watching TV.)
He can cook.
He puts gas in my car for me, now that I let him drive it.
He sometimes surprises me by doing my dishes or taking out my trash.
If I'm being a snot, which I must admit I am sometimes, he laughs and then I have a hard time being snotty when I'm laughing too.
He puts up with visiting my family twice monthly, though he feels awkward.
Since I work swing shift, he likes me to call him every night and tell him I made it home OK.
He's 100% in love with me.

That's a summary of everything I can think of right now...what do you guys think? Redy2kcivic, if you're still with your guy, I would say cut your losses now, before it gets worse.

[DantesInferno]

For some reason, I stumbled in here tonight and was reading through some old threads. I was a tempermental little Dante and the date I referred to back there on page one led to a relationship that lasted for a month, before he was put into a secure ward. LOL! Sometimes, I just have to laugh at myself and realize that perhaps some things just happen for a reason.

Although, I still wonder what male mods made their way in and out of here.