Why dont they just say "we dont trust you"

[CeeJay]

Originally Posted by NissanRacing

I know how you feel. Also everyone in this post that said that your parents are right and that you can't be right until you live alone is ignorant, stupid, probably either 50 or 10, and probably never had any friends. Don't listen to them.

You're the last person qualified to give advice - anyone who has been reading your "girl problem" thread will know that

You need to try and sort out your own head before you go giving advice to others.

[NissanRacing]

What the fuck? When was it decided you can't have any problems before you can give advice? And I already sorted out all my problems, its you idiots that keep posting. Notice the last 20 posts are by you morons talking between yourselves about how the topic makes so sense. And not only that but the only problem I ever had was that I didn't know if I should ask her out. Think before you post again, and also it would be wise for you to never give advice to anyone ever again.

[CeeJay]

Originally Posted by NissanRacing

What the fuck? When was it decided you can't have any problems before you can give advice? And I already sorted out all my problems, its you idiots that keep posting. Notice the last 20 posts are by you morons talking between yourselves about how the topic makes so sense. And not only that but the only problem I ever had was that I didn't know if I should ask her out. Think before you post again, and also it would be wise for you to never give advice to anyone ever again.

Bet you live at home with mummy and daddy - hormonal teenagers are such angry creatures

[NissanRacing]

And just because I didn't know if I should ask the girl out doesn't mean I can't tell the difference between fair, caring parents, and mean, rude parents. Also the only mistake I made was bringing my problems to a bunch of morons like you. What would someone that doesn't even know me know about helping me with my social life?

[NissanRacing]

And what are you? A 35 year old with no life that sits at home and hits his ford aerostar with a hammer because he doesnt have any friends and doesn't have a real job so then he goes online and makes fun of kids he doesnt know because he is mad that he never had a girlfriend? I'm not the one judging people and making fun of people with problems, and then giving them incredibly bad advice.

[Oz]

Originally Posted by taranaki

Pardon me,but I find your post totally offensive.Just because some of us were brought up to respect our parents,doesn't make us idiots.For the record,I am neither 50 nor 10, and yes,I do have friends.I also love and respect my parents.Even though it is a long time since I left home,even when they are guests in my house,I show a bit of deferrence to their values,and listen with respect to their opinions.Put bluntly,if someone wants all the bonuses of living with their parents,they need to accept the occasional downside.

As for looking after a 16 year old - I'd consider it a compliment that your parents consider you to be significantly more mature than your brother.If it's any consolation,I still get pissed off when my wife wants to go out and I get left stuck at home to care our children.

I think you have a fairly warped perspective on values and the level of respect being shown by IL2DC here, Naki. He was clearly not impressed about the choice his parents made pertaining to his evening, but had enough respect for them that he did what they asked of him regardless.

The fact that he not only managed to do that, but he managed to do it without having a huge spat, breaking anything, hurting anybody and only outlet I can tell was a post in Stress Release speaks volumes for both his respect for his parents and maturity as an 18yo who wants a bit more freedom.

Every healthy relationship between humans on earth is based both on respect and give/take. Completely understandable you don't enjoy being left at home with kids when your wife goes out, but I'm sure the feeling is mutual when you're out and she's looking after them.

CeeJay - you are clearly the one with a chip on your shoulder when responding to Nissan Racing's posts. Mind telling us exactly what your problem is with him as opposed to making cold personal attacks?

NissanRacing - you raise some thoroughly valid points. Continue being the bigger man in that argument and not only will you find a more responsive and appreciative audience here at AF, your points/logic/argument will have far more credit.

[CeeJay]

Hey Nissan - with the amount of sucking up in that post from Oz, it looks like ya got at least one friend dude

Me - chip on shoulder Oz .. whatever dude .. whatever

Originally Posted by Oz

I think you have a fairly warped perspective on values and the level of respect being shown by IL2DC here, Naki. He was clearly not impressed about the choice his parents made pertaining to his evening, but had enough respect for them that he did what they asked of him regardless.

The fact that he not only managed to do that, but he managed to do it without having a huge spat, breaking anything, hurting anybody and only outlet I can tell was a post in Stress Release speaks volumes for both his respect for his parents and maturity as an 18yo who wants a bit more freedom.

That's rubbish. Actually, it speaks volumes for the fact he didn't wanna be kicked out on his arse, so he did what his parents told him, and, considering he openly admits that he unfortunately can't afford a place of his own, I don't blame him. Earth calling Planet Zarg .. Earth calling Planet Zarg

[Oz]

That is about the level of literacy and insight I have come to expect from your posts in the short time that you have been here.

[integra818]

Originally Posted by ILike2DriveCars

where Im doing it, whom I am doing it with ...

Damn, they even know about your sex life?

[jon@af]

Originally Posted by integra818

Damn, they even know about your sex life?

lol, no; they know where I am going to be, and what friends Im going to be with.

[Toksin]

Originally Posted by Oz

I think you have a fairly warped perspective on values and the level of respect being shown by IL2DC here, Naki. He was clearly not impressed about the choice his parents made pertaining to his evening, but had enough respect for them that he did what they asked of him regardless.

The fact that he not only managed to do that, but he managed to do it without having a huge spat, breaking anything, hurting anybody and only outlet I can tell was a post in Stress Release speaks volumes for both his respect for his parents and maturity as an 18yo who wants a bit more freedom.

Every healthy relationship between humans on earth is based both on respect and give/take. Completely understandable you don't enjoy being left at home with kids when your wife goes out, but I'm sure the feeling is mutual when you're out and she's looking after them.

Grant, Naki was replying to NissanRacing's post, not Jon's

CeeJay, if you want to flame people, go somewhere else.

I think Jon's handled this quite maturely. Yes, he's venting, but has shown the respect to his parents by doing what they asked, even though he doesn't like it. I know people who would just nut out at their parents like 5 year olds (when they are 22) and just make things worse.

[NissanRacing]

Originally Posted by taranaki

Pardon me,but I find your post totally offensive.Just because some of us were brought up to respect our parents,doesn't make us idiots.For the record,I am neither 50 nor 10, and yes,I do have friends.I also love and respect my parents.Even though it is a long time since I left home,even when they are guests in my house,I show a bit of deferrence to their values,and listen with respect to their opinions.Put bluntly,if someone wants all the bonuses of living with their parents,they need to accept the occasional downside.

As for looking after a 16 year old - I'd consider it a compliment that your parents consider you to be significantly more mature than your brother.If it's any consolation,I still get pissed off when my wife wants to go out and I get left stuck at home to care our children.

Sorry I didn't reply to this earlier, I didn't see it. Anyway, I never meant for him to just blatantly disrespect and disobey his parents. I was saying that when they start being unfair and controling, to the point of being destrucive to this guys life, its time to start doing what he wants to do in a fair manner. He is 18, he is an adult, and if he wants to he can go to his friends house. Its not fair for them to control him into doing something stupid and wasteful. And I didn't mean you were an idiot for listening to your parents, I meant you were an idiot for wrongly trying to justify a dishonest act with statements like "you will thank them when your older" or other remarks like that.

[raysoh8]

this is becoming a flame thread