women

[IIwhitexb0iII]

i am a freshman in college and as a freshman i started out the year with two close guy friends and one girl in the same group. we considered ourselves a family blah blah blah yadda yadda...

so with the girl i was her closest friend. just being myself which in turn caused me to be very nice to her. when i meet women who give me an opportunity to i am this way because i believe it is the proper way to treat a lady

so i end up telling her how i feel about her. that shes awesome and deserves someone who will make her happy.

and this freaked her out

she thinks i've had alterior motives this whole time and was only nice to her to...whatever
i don't know

she isn't talking to me and apparently doesn't want to be friends with the whole group of us anymore...

bitch?

i don't know, i just want her to talk to me so we can straighten things out

thoughts?

[Mediocrity]

She's crazy.. you're better off finding this out now rather than later.

[HogieGT-R]

i call the insecure card...any takers?

[imtheoneandonlyD]

[ec437]

I've had that happen before. Oh, more than once.

I no longer tell girls how i feel. I just let it happen.

[Oz]

Maybe she sees it as friendship under false pretences?

Either way, I think your stuck in the 'friend' bag forever

[IIwhitexb0iII]

we just need to talk to handle this like grown-ups...

so today i was going to do my laundry and i see her at the location across the hall, so i choose my normal one which is on the other side. she was alone, typing a paper on her laptop and i respect that and leave her alone.

as i'm coming back from lunch she sees me and when i'm leaving she has a group of her, "new and improved friends," all laughing and having a grand old time. shes beginning to make me believe that i've done something.

i know i know, i haven't done anything and all i need to do is go out and meet new people, but its hard when someone who you have had for so long just moves on without even talking to you.

...yeah

le sigh

PS http://intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

that is a link from her facebook which i'm assuming she follows to the T, which is why i believe i'm in this situation

[quteasabutton]

yeah just forget about her i've been friends with girls like that too. we used to be best friends until she thought she was too good for the rest of us and is always flaunting her new, "better" friends. so i went and found other people too, no need to put up with that BS, and neither should you. find some other girl who will appreciate that ur a nice caring guy

[IIwhitexb0iII]

Originally Posted by craigcully

I found the ladder theory to be fascinating... so I guess you're not rich enough? And if she emerged from the bathroom naked, would you fuck her? I think subconsciencously you did want to fuck her, and your situation in fact does fit the ladder theory to a capital T.

i suppose i thought she understood me better than how it actually turned out in reality...human nature is something i cannot escape and apparently something i'll have to deal with

[Jet-Lee]

Do her.

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Jet-Lee

Do her.

typical ignorant guy response...

[2.2 Straight six]

Originally Posted by Oz

Either way, I think your stuck in the 'friend' bag forever

yup, oz is right, either you're stuck to being a friend or you're not even gonna get the "privelidge" of being that.

[Mediocrity]

typical ignorant guy response...

heres the joke.. ---------> o


heres your head.. --------> o

[goat_launcher]

Originally Posted by IIwhitexb0iII

human nature is something i cannot escape and apparently something i'll have to deal with

hey, how bout another great thing to deal with? there are 5 FUCKING BILLION MORE CHICKS out there. SO, keep your head up, man - and eat a goddamn donut.

[MBTN]

After becoming friends with a girl, you can't them you have feelings for her. In fact, you never tell a girl you have feelings for her. You have to ask them out fast otherwise they figure you just wanted to be friends. It happens. Welcome to the friend zone.