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[VideoNasty]

This is a senseless rambling thread about my boring ass life.

My man and I have been on the outs for a few months now. I want him to get a job, he wants to concentrate on school, I want to go have fun, he wants to sit in front of his computer and play goddamn games. He wants sex with me, I want sex with ANYONE else!! Its total bullshit. I told him I found him totally annoying and completely boring. He trys to blame it on the 'stress' his school and our money situation is putting on me. Bullshit, I wouldn't have a money situation if he wasn't here.
He decided to go to conselling that they offer at his school(He also went ALONE as I don't need no stupid conselling, I know what the problem is...its him!) The consellor told him that both of us need to give, etc, and so forth.
He is trying to save the Titanic here. I don't want this relationship, and I'll be damned if I'm going to try to save a sinking ship. He keeps asking people advice about what WE should do. But what he forgets is that WE are no more, I told him I don't want to be with him anymore. Period. I don't want him in my house, I don't want him in my life. HE JUST WON"T LEAVE!!
GAWD how stubborn can a person be?!?!?! He spent last night at a freinds house, and it has been simply blissful around here finally. No one following me around asking me to talk, no one to look at me with puppy dog eyes and make me feel completely guilty(excepting my 5 puppy dogs). I could get used to the single life! only problem is I forget how to be single. bah I'll learn

[BootyDC316]

Get yourself a pitbull and a AK-47, and he'll leave, lol

[speediva]

Must be that time of year... that or people I know just have the same kind of luck at the same time of year.

My roommate from this past year has been dating her b/f for over 3.5 years. I don't like her b/f (well, actually fiancee) mostly for what he becomes when he drinks. Some people are good drunks, some people are bad, and some people have good times and bad times... he's always bad. He becomes a major bigot with nothing better to say than racial slurs and other such things. He doesn't have an independant thought to save his mind. He's a bum... Well, we (a small band of people) finally got her to want to break up with him. No sooner than she finds an interest in another guy does she take him back.

Okay, so that rant seemed pointless, but what I'm getting at is that if you don't want him... GET RID OF HIM HOW EVER YOU CAN!!! If you want only a break from him, take a break. If you fully want out, box his stuff, put it at the door and don't talk to him til it's all out. (yes, I'm a cold-hearted bitch, and no, I probably couldn't do this myself).

Anyhoo, sorry to hear about the situation, and we're here if you need to talk more.

[VideoNasty]

Eh, I would never own a pitbull, they are too untrustworthy. I have show and breeding English Cockers and Briards.

Yup Tangie, I'm thinking I need to start packing his shit up, only problem is there's alot of it. 3 or 4 computers, boxes and boxes of shit taking up room in the closet that is all junk that shoulda been tossed years ago. He has half full boxes of trash he picked up off his floor when he moved and brought with him! ARGH! Other than this computer room, everything else is pretty much mine. i would like for him to come home to talk about him moving, but I know what will happen, he'll blame EVERYTHING on me, and I'll feel hella guilty and then I'll start crying and then I'll start apologizing for shit that isn't for me to apologize about.
Then we start over at the misery again. ARGH!!
If and When I finally ditch this guy I will never live with someone again. Its too much hassle for the few perks.

[BootyDC316]

I was kidding about the pitbull, lol. But I have been through something a lil bit similar
I broke up with my ex last year, on Valentines day. We were together for a long ass time, since high school, but last year of the relationship, he started treating me like shit basically and cheated on me a few times (didn't find out until a month before I broke up with him), he just totally changed. I wanted out of it a few months before, but I couldn't at the time b/c of some circumstances. I met a wonderful man at work (now my husband) and we became good friends (I fell in love with him, I knew he always liked me... but... I wanted to be faithful, unlike my ex). But anyway, my ex took me out to dinner for Valentines day, and afterwards, he became more of a dick than he had been, and I just told him, 'I can't deal with this shit anymore, I've treated you with nothing but respect and love, and you treat me like shit, I'm tired of it, it's over." I got my message across, but he wouldn't leave me alone for 5 months after that. He was jealous of my new relationship, still tried to st art crap with me, and even begged and pleaded for me to take him back... I wasn't.
My ex and I lived together, and I went through the whole thing about packing stuff up a few times before I initially broke up with him. But, then I felt guilty, and all I could think about were the good times I had with this guy. He tried to save it, but I guess he couldn't see how much he hurt me through it all. But now, I'm happily married, have a son, and feeling a lot better about myself
Anyway to end this, good luck with gettin rid of your boyfriend girl. and don't fall for the blame game! You have nothing to be blamed about!

[VideoNasty]

Ah, we have a topper to this saga.


My SE-R's starter decided to finally take that big shit its been threatening tonight. Fuck my busy weekend of going to Tampa on Sat and then Orlando Sun.


Times like these that I'm glad I don't own a gun.

[LI Lady]

Just sit him down, and tell him, "get the fuck out". LOL. That usually works well. LOL

[BootyDC316]