The Universal mateship language. Mates first.

[-Davo]

Ok.

Inbetween cooking pasta, and playing wow, I have a life with my mates. Nothing stands inbetween me and my mates... Except ... fucking... women.


Ok, love em, wish I had one, miss my old one, but there IS a time and a place to be romantic with your chick and when you should spend time with your mates is NOT ONE OF THEM. EVER. PERIOD.


I am organising a boys night out this Friday in the City (I live in Sydney for those newbies) and everyone is cool with it gunna have a smashin awesome time, except Mr. "Oh I have to spend time with my missus because 60 hours a week ISN'T ENOUGH".

Seriously.

Imagine haven't really seen your best friend for 8 months STRAIGHT because he's "too busy with the missus", then telling to step up and say "WTF NO!!! Tell her NO you're busy!"

but noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


"IM...BUSY".....

To make it worse, he spends EVERY afternoon with this chick, and EVERY friday night, and EVERY saturday night, and every time I go over his house his smooching his girl, which I don't care about I just play wow, which is awesome, but dude, dogging your mates to spend ANOTHER FUCKING WEEKEND with the SAME FUCKING PERSON


is


NOT FUCKING ON.



/cry


I go over his house all the time, she's ALWAYS THERE. It's not that it's annoying, but every weekend? We organise pub runs EVERY WEEK, and EVERY WEEK he's "oh, I can come next week [girls name] is working". Come that time, "oh, I'm with [girls name] tonight"

EIGHT MONTHS.

At the start it was cool, it was understandable, but even the OTHER boys, who ALSO have girlfriends, tell them "NO boys night, NO!"

Not this one.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

i agree. that was a problem with one of my best friends awhile ago. He would tell his gf NO guys night out. Then we would be playing poker and havin a few beers and she comes over and wants to play. Im glad they broke up.

[vinnym86]

i know exactly what u mean. i wouldn't wish an end to their relationship, but like D said, i'd be happy. there are times when women need to play it cooler, just back off a bit and go out with their girlfriends while the guys chill like back in the day.

[-Davo]

He claims that "Every relationship is differant", like I don't know that.

But his idea of keeping his girlfriend is rotting away a 7 year mateship bond. The ONLY times he EVER came out with us were for 40 minutes to 1 hour at the pub, then he got picked up and went out with his girlfriend.

Sure, I am happy for the guy, but this is getting rediculous. I told him he's spending too much time with her, and I am fricken right.
To tell your mates that you'd rather be with a girl all the time than with your mates for one fucking night is an insult to a perfectly good friendship. And coming up with poor excuses every week to cover it up is pathetic.

As you can tell, I'm not happy.

But if wishing they would break up means I get my mate back, then I wish they would just break up.

[BleedDodge]

Next time they call you they'll be begging you to babysit.

[gouldie1903]

i have a friend like that, he never does anything and when he does he makes fun of everyone for not having a gf. the worst was when he brought her along while she was pmsing. worst night ever.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

alright a few years ago my friend was dating this girl. Now i've known this guy for 8 years. She had the nerve to tell him that i was "taking him away from her" because we were hanging out. He had been dating her maybe a month at the time....sometimes i wish i could hit a woman. She would have gotten it.

[WickedNYCowboy]

Yeah stuff like that pisses me off with my one friend. A lot of times unless he really needs something I tell him to piss off.