A girl that I like

[BigFig15]

I met this girl at work. We started talking and getting to know eachother and all that stuff. Then I told her that I liked her and she really liked me. I said well lets go out but she said no because she just got out of an engagment like 3 months ago, I thought to myself WTF your only 18. Im like ok, whatever u want. I always try to make plans to hang out with her, and when the time came something would come up that she couldnt hang out or had other plans. Im like whatever. I texted her cell phone and said when can we get together since u can make time for everyone else. That really pissed her off and screwed myself over for saying that. But i told her i was sorry and everything was cool again. I finally got her to hang out with me, so I brought her to my bros house (he wasnt home and my sis was home at my house) to sit there and have a talk about my feelings towards her. Well she sat there and damn near told me her life story, and Im sitting there in aww and disgust. She told me her 16 yr old sister is 8 1/2 months pregnant. some of her friends had abortions or kids and theyre only 17-19 years old. Some of her guy friends are in prison or just got out of prison, mostly for drugs. She proceeded to tell me a few years ago that her and her friend would spend 130 bucks a weekend on weed. plus she still does it yet but not as much. Im like WTF am i getting myself in here. I HATE FUCKING DRUGS WITH A PASSION. Then she texted me that she felt uncomfortable that day being with me, she was afraid of me putting the moves on her. Im like WTF, i am extremely nice guy that would never harm a lady. I never touched drugs. Why the fuck do people do drugs? Im seriously having second thoughts about this girl now. I swear there arent any clean, nice, loyal girls out there. I HATE FUCKING DRUGS!!! I dont know what to think or to do.

[illegal_eagle187]

i wouldnt consider weed a drug, tobacco and alcohol are more of a drug than weed is......but i dont know what to tell you about the rest, i would just talk with her more

[dirtydx]

Maybe it's best to let this one go, she might come back to you, who knows. Too much wierd in too little time, my guess is a full-time relationship would be torture.

[Knifeblade]

Walk away, but you should appreciate that she let you know what she's about without finding out about it later on when things maybe get more close.

[fredjacksonsan]

Sounds like she needs a friend that isn't into drugs.

And illegal_eagle, marijuana IS a drug, or at least contains THC which is the active ingredient, or "actual" drug.

[MBTN]

Run away. She's definately not worth the headache. She's only 18 and has all these issues. Plenty of other fish in the see. And for future reference, DON'T EVER SPILL YOUR GUTS TO A GIRL!

[Andydg]

Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

Sounds like she needs a friend that isn't into drugs.

People don't usually spill their life story to just anyone.

[BigFig15]

Why the hell do people do drugs? People ask me, "Well whats the difference between drugs and booze or beer?" Im like most drugs are illegal. I dont know what else to tell them.

[illegal_eagle187]

booze is more dangerous for you than smoking weed......i dont consider weed a drug, you cant become dependant on weed, but you sure can on alcohol and tobacco, but yeah just walk away from her, find a girl with less problems then she has

oh btw people do drugs for many reason, fun, expirementation, stupidness, maybe because they are just hooked on them, peer pressure, stress release (i do them because all of the above apply to me lol) but there isnt just 1 reason why people do them, but its cool to hate drugs, its definately the right choice

[PBking82]

Honestly you need to lighten up a bit. So what if her sister is pregnent and her friends have had kids and abortions they obivously knew what they were getting into when they decided to fuck around (unless they still thought that the stork pops out all those damn kids). You seriously need to stop passing all your moral judgments on people (oh but wait, you're one of those perfect people aren't you?). And who the fuck cares if people do drugs?? honestly here, it is another person's life and unless you are their father/mother you really have no place to tell them what to do. I understand giving them advice, but if you don't like being around them DON'T FUCKING HANG OUT WITH THEM!!! that'll solve 99% of your problems. You really only have two choices in this situation. Either learn to mellow the fuck out and realize that people are gonna do what they wanna do (i.e. take the girl + bags), or continuing living your life looking for that clean vigrin so you can someday move to Iowa and pop out 50 kids and teach them that if they make mistakes they are worthless peices of shit and no one will ever love them. Peace-

[Knifeblade]

Nope, PB, it matter of conflicting value-systems. One system accepts the use of substances and the obviously loose-legs, the other appears to have a different standard. That the one has difficulty accepting the other is fine, so in my opinion~~~~~~~~~

Your statement not to pass moral judgement is incorrect. Nor is your statement re the clean virgin, hello earth!!!!!!!!!

It not issue of virginity, it issue of life-style that could have repercussions if a relation goes further.

[PBking82]

Sorry bro I just can't stand to hear people bitch about stupid things such as this. "I hate drugs, i hate people that have sex, etc..." Just because they've lived their life in some bubble seperated from the reality of life. People have sex and do drugs it's a fact of life. Just because you think those are "no-no's" doesn't mean that you are a better person then the guy/girl who does. Arrogence(sp?) kills. Peace-

[Oz]

Run away.

[-Josh-]

You're obviously not ready for something like this...in a mature sense mostly... If you cant deal with this on your own i suggest living at home for another 20 or so years...and not dating...

[srt4girl2]

relationships suck!...and so do everything that goes along with them.....sorry for the lack of compassion but i have been having some trouble with my guy lately.....