Pain.

[Kalect325]

Everyone's felt physical pain, but emotional pain is worse. There is a girl I'm crazy about, and can't work up the nerve to ask her out. It makes me want to cry. Not to mention I'm pissed at myself.

[KatWoman]

How good of friends are you with her? I have found that is better to be good friends before jumping into the realtionship. This way you can kinda get to know each others likes and dislikes (and once you are together you will find a lot more) and whether she's the kind of person you would want to be hooked up with. Better to find things you may not like before getting in deeper than to get in over your head.

[Spec2 Girl]

I’d say ask her out. It’ll torture you forever until you do. I’ve always looked at it this way, what’s the worst that she can say. It’s either going to be a yes or no, and at least that way you won’t go on torturing yourself over it.

[Kalect325]

Originally posted by KatWoman
How good of friends are you with her? I have found that is better to be good friends before jumping into the realtionship. This way you can kinda get to know each others likes and dislikes (and once you are together you will find a lot more) and whether she's the kind of person you would want to be hooked up with. Better to find things you may not like before getting in deeper than to get in over your head.

Ya, but I've been in situations where I get to know a girl, and she says she doesn't want to risk our friendship. I know her well enough to know she gives me the best feelings when she's around....

[KatWoman]

Originally posted by Kalect325


Ya, but I've been in situations where I get to know a girl, and she says she doesn't want to risk our friendship. I know her well enough to know she gives me the best feelings when she's around....

I hear ya there too. Well if you like what you know about her now, then I say go for it and ask her if she's like to go out Friday/Saturday (or whatever other day you want). The worst is, she'll say no. If so, move on...easier said than done, but no use torturing yourself.

[Steel]

And getting a no isnt that bad either. Think of it this way, in the case that she turns you down think "hey, at least she didnt lie and say yes to then four months later dump me for no excuse and put me through more emotional torment than i would have experienced if she had just said no in the first place"

















Yes. Im still a teeny bit bitter.


Just the other day, when i was drunk, i was talking to my freind on the phone ( id dont remember) but everyone tells me how i kept babbling aobut how Me and nina were back together and that were were engaged and she loved me and everything. I guess it took a BAL of .83 to really share my feelings.

[Sanchi]

argggg....... hehehe



Always nice to get wasted:silly2: :silly2:

[Sanchi]

humm isent there a middle ground like kinda get some info about her from ppl around her... then ask her out

i find waiting and building up the nerve to talk to her, takes too long and u might miss ur chance. So dont wait too long... wish i can take my advice sometimes

[taranaki]

Try and get an AIM handle or chat room address from her.If she's switched on she will probably realise what you want it for and can give you an answer without having to risk a potentially embarrassing face-to-face.But of course "yes" is an answer that would not be at all embarrassing!!!! DO IT NOW MAN!

[Kalect325]

Originally posted by taranaki
Try and get an AIM handle or chat room address from her.If she's switched on she will probably realise what you want it for and can give you an answer without having to risk a potentially embarrassing face-to-face.But of course "yes" is an answer that would not be at all embarrassing!!!! DO IT NOW MAN!

I feel so much better now, I did get her AIM handle. I'd been plannin on it, and did it today, I plan to talk to her tonight. She sat with me and talked to be for half an hour after school. :flash: :flash: :flash: :jump: :ylsuper

[Tireburner]

Anybody but me notice that you mention relationship problems, or how to heal your torn heart, the females here come out of the wood work????

I haven't seen nary a post from most of them all week, then BANG!! The bleeding heart gets them everytime!!

Not disin' you girls, your presence here is needed and appreciated, I was just making an vocal observation.

[taranaki]

Originally posted by Tireburner
Anybody but me notice that you mention relationship problems, or how to heal your torn heart, the females here come out of the wood work????

Hope you don't think I'm a girl!!!!!




:finger: :finger: :finger: :finger:

[Tireburner]

Originally posted by taranaki


Hope you don't think I'm a girl!!!!!




:finger: :finger: :finger: :finger:

Goodnes no!!!

You're the funny dude from KIWI land that I look forward to reading his kick ass, bust gut replies!!!

No need for the fingers!!!

[KatWoman]

Originally posted by Tireburner
Anybody but me notice that you mention relationship problems, or how to heal your torn heart, the females here come out of the wood work????

I am usually here (on AF) a few times a day. Topics are moving slow the last few days so I don't have too much to say until new topics or replies comes along

Maybe I should have a mod put AF Love Counselor under my name j/k

[taranaki]

Originally posted by Tireburner


No need for the fingers!!!

Theyr'e fingers,true...but they're smiling..

Just ragging you,no offence intended!