I don't know about the Bay area, but in the DC Metro area, most dealers aren't budging an inch. It's just like when the BMW M3 came out, no deals...
Most dealers I just called outta the blue gave the standard "Infiniti Corpration is not allowing us to give any discounts on this vehicle" answer.
However, you might be able to work out some bells and whistles at a more personable dealer in town...
Tinted windows, etc...
--cSc