I’ve been driving a black Murano for 10 years. It doesn’t have DRL lights and I haven’t had your problems. I suspect your driving speed has something to do with it. Unfortunately most people today’s drive around 10 mph over the limit and faster. I think they do see you, then they wait for you to pass by, when they realize your lower speed they get impatient and take off. I use to drive a heavy truck and cars this would happen to me several times a day because they didn’t want to drive behind me. I would drive with your low beams on to see if it helps. Then your tail and marker lights would be on also.