Just an update. After much research I determined the FEM had to be programmable, despite what every Ford dealership told me. I contacted a local automotive specialty shop that deals with electrical issues. They said they would check it out and $67 later I had daytime running lights. Amazing that Ford doesn't know their own vehicles. Actually it isn't that amazing. I have had very little luck with Ford service. Anyway, anyone who wants daytime running lights just needs to go to the dealership service department and try to find someone who knows how to access the programming of the FEM with their special scanner and turn them on. Don't let them tell you it can't be done.