Since her mother finally made her leave the car home i went back out and drove it and the result is the water pump. she failed to mention that when its cold it squeals pretty bad and you can feel the pump locking up to the point it almost stalled on me. but im sure with the radio up and heat on high she never even noticed so im pretty sure thats it. thanks for the suggestions i did forget to check the IAC so while im changing the pump i will give it a look.