[DIYnoob]

ok so it turns out my eyes just suck. I re checked the fuse box under dash and the fuse for radio was blown. not sure how i missed this. replaced the fuse and radio was fine.

i did however fry my rem wire so i decided to install a switch with running new rem wire anyways.
now everything is even better than it was

thanks for that tip it helped me figure out the switch install by the way.