your EX engine is the same as the Si hatch. so if you don't see things listed for EX, look under Si
i have always felt and intake is an intake. just some bent tube. you'll get your difference in the filter...in reguards to the shorter intkaes. i hear mixed things about the CAI.
i love me short throw shifter. still one of my favorite things.
you say you want a ZC or sohc vtec. just so you know, most parts you buy now will fit those as well. i wasn't happy with the d16a6 (88-91 Si)cam gear on the d16y8 (96-00 EX) couldn't get it from being 1 tooth out of time...but like the header & intake work
you should add exhaust and eventually header to your list

oh yea...clear corners and sidemarkers can be found on ebay cheap
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