Well i am just posting what i found to finally fix my truck i found a dead short in the ignition circuit from the horn. I bought a new starter and when i installed it and reconnected the battery the starter spun right away without trying to start it and i traced it to the relay/fuse box and found that the horn and ignition ciruits were melted together my old starter's contacts were really bad which is why i believe it wasnt turning until i closed the ignition circuit but it did crank bad. so now everything is fixed and it starts like a dream i would like to thank you all for the advice and i would like to apologize to j_cat for the little squabble you were right it was something to do with the starter but it was way out of the realm of what i expected. Thanks Y'all!
