update: i went to jiffy lube on tuesday to get the oil changed and see what they could do about the bolt, after like a minute in the waiting room the mechanic comes to me and says the bolt is really messed up and he doesnt want to force it because it could break

but then he said i could go to pepboys because they specialize in this type of problem, and the pepboys was only like five minutes away, so i went there, told them about the problem, they said they couldnt promise me anything but they would try. i waited like 20 minutes in the waiting room and voila they said i was good to go and i think they put a new bolt on.
so thats good, and it feels like my car is hovering now, its great
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i never knew a buick could ride as smooth as a cadillac and use cheaper gas

buick>caddy(well at least until i buy a caddy lol.