ok i have been having basically the same problem. While messing with the alarm my car just shut off on me. I have ruled out the alarm as the culprit since it unhooked completely and the fact the car has been sitting for the last ten months(wrecked). I tried starter fluid in the intake and checked the fuel pump. I was checking for the main relay but am not sure what it looks like. This is the closest thing i found that could it. If i am wrong can someone please post a pic of it. Also where is the igniter located?