[aussieidiot]

thank you for the comments.

Its the small things you notice now.

My photos gone from her wallet. she's not wearing her rings.

I'm so lost.

with our housing market now, we won't sell for what we owe.

I will lose everything.

even my job is suffering.

I just want to know if i'm working for us or me from now on. if its just me then i will work even harder. if its us i'll back off to preserve what we once had and try for happiness.
even though i've been wronged, she has control. i know i can end it too but i don't think i want too.

Please post support only, negative will severly fuck with my head. I can't really say to much to my friends because my wife is ashamed of whats happened. if she feels that everyone knows and is judging her to be evil then she will run to this other guy for support and i don't have a chance.

my other concern is, she has just been in contact with her favourite cousin who dumped his fiance on their wedding day. he was ashamed and ran away. same scenario but i hope for a different outcome.