Quote:
|
Originally Posted by '97ventureowner
Add to that the division of the classes,( those that are considered the "haves" versus those who are considered the "have nots" ) further adds to the problem of obtaining and keeping friends. People tend to stay in their own "social class" and not go out of the "boundaries".
|
Indeed, people avoid those from other social classes that are outside of their boundaries. But why do they do this? I think it's basically because it would suck to hang out with those people for any number of reasons. So in a nutshell, that is just one example of a myriad of sucky social situations. The thing is, social situations in general have a STRONG tendency to suck, both within and without conventional boundaries and norms. A fun party will always be the exception, not the rule, to the norm. Perhaps we come to understand this more as we get older? Since, more and more, everything we do is a means to an end, do we choose to disregard friendships that serve no functional purpose? I think so. But as far as I'm concerned, hanging out with people sucks unless it's a hot girl, but that's only because I haven't been laid in a while (8 days). More often than not, I go somewhere with friends to get away from my fucking annoying roommates, rather than out of a desire for good company.
CLIFF NOTES: a paragraph of hairbrained nonsense "cultivated" by a guy who lives up to his sn