Carbon Fiber Trim came OEM on the M3 Lightweight, offered in 1995. You can get it from you dealer, it's a grip of money but it's worth it. It's red/grey CF, an unlike anything else, REAL CF. Well worth the $$$ IMO.
Get euro ellipsoids, the headlights that came on the Euro M3. They are about $300 and are true projectors, have DRLs, but best of all, you can put HID in for an additional $500.
The '95 M3 is a 3.0L. 240hp/225lb/ft