[Oz]

(assuming this is a serious post, not just fishing/trolling)

Buying each other's affection with gifts is a shallow, superficial attempt at bribery. It means nothing in the long run of an emotionally involved relationship - they are mere posessions.

He doesn't sound like he has a clue what he wants - to go, to stay and be moody and make you miserable, etc.

My personal thoughts from reading your post are you should break up with him. Do it like a bandaid - clean break, right off, no contact - not even as friends. It simply doesn't work and continuing to see each other as 'freinds' will cause more pain in the long run.

Put simply, your relationship sounds doomed to fail, so it's better to end it now than prolong the pain.