[speediva]

Granted, women do the same thing... if they didn't, the word cuckold wouldn't even exist...


But MY problem is that HE came on to ME. He made the first (and second, and third) moves... and I just kept going with them. I'm PAINFULLY shy, so to actually get picked up in a bar (first mistake) is something of an accomplishment for me. I'm not much of a looker, so again, any attention I get, I will take.

What I DO have to give him credit for is that I asked about an ex, and he offered up the marriage thing... It's sad I have to give him credit there, but he very easily could have said that he didn't have an ex, and it would not have been a lie. I did tell him that.