Sounds like you soaked the fuse box under the hood.
Its probly all shorting out and you need to get it dried asap.
Also keep the battery disconnected till its dried out
Removing the fuses and relays(everything) would help it dry faster. A hair dryer would speed things up. Compressed air would help as long as its filtered and dry air.
The relays only go in one way and You probly shouldnt mix them up. Pretty sure they are all the same but not certain on the 04's.
Merry Christmas !