forum is a place for showing and also for posting comments.people say "awesome",people say "crapy",people keep quiet and people gave constructive comments,that's people.every one of us is different from each other,we feel Oli's harsh but i guess Oli just cant find another way to express his feeling,maybe it's not that decent but that's Oli right?i saw he made some explanation about his post and tried to let us understand him on that thread,so i think Oli is not a rude man.you can't make every one do as you think,there always be something that you can't control but there's alway one thing that you surely can.yourself.so why not try to learn to hear?if i did something that really not good and some one said "awesome",ok thanks man for your encourage,and some one pointed my shortcoming and gave constructive criticise,i say thank you very much man!!and keep the comments for my next work,maybe even PM him for advanced advice.or some one said "oh come on man,what a piece of fuckin' shit you're making!" i just turn a blind eye to it.but i say to myself next time i'll make a piece of cake.
but first of all,respect is everything.if i'm really an asshole i think no one would stay on my side.