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Re: Need Advice
I've been there before. Its hard to say what to do. I hated kidding myself, I began to get emotionally involved the longer it went on. She told me from the beginning she wasnt ready for a relationship, but had feelings for me and wanted to take things slow. So we did for about 8 weeks. She had a lot of guy friends that she hung out with. It didnt bother me for awhile, then being that there was the unknown it did. I got tired of kidding myself and broke it off. She told me "I'm sorry, Im just not ready for a relationship with anybody".
Four weeks later she has a boyfriend. What the fuck? I wondered what happened.
Moral of the story, dont get too involved or you'll hurt yourself. Granted you have strong feelings but its best for you to try and move on. Now I know thats not what you want to hear; I didnt want to hear it either when I was in your situation. Looking back on it now though, I'm glad I did move on. Granted there will always be a part of me that misses her, but I've moved on to interest in other women.
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