[Mikelb]

man... I wish I had the words to say to make it all better, or to even point you in the right direction. I have been going through some serious relationship problems here lately as well, and I am again a "nice guy". So, I know where you're coming from.
The thing I can tell you that I've learned from my ordeal is, think about things before doing them, don't just rush or do something split-second.

Also, through relationship counseling; I have been told, be honest. Don't fight or get pissed over stupid little things, be honest about what bothers you. If you are mad b/c you think a/b her talking to the ex, then you're gonna be pissed all day w/her, and might snap if something stupid happens (she steps on your foot), and flip out. It might cause some up front tension to be honest, but overall that's the best way.

^Make sure you say what's really bothering you, not the little things... and don't hold back. She'll be happier knowing that she can make you happy, and if not; go your seperate ways (I hate to say it)...