Ok, I usually won't get into something like this with people I don't know, but I think I know you all enough now to post this. Let me explain my story first. I need advice on what to do because I don't know what to do. Let's begin
I've been with my girl for coming up to 11 months now. A while back ago, her ex of 2 years came into the picture. I told her not to talk, write, or see him... and she did. She ended up almost breaking up with me to go back to him. We had many fights during this time and all. She told me one day that while she was at a party at his house, she got drunk and he kissed her and she kissed him back, but then stopped him. We fought and eventually I said the only way to keep me is to drop him, his friends, and everything. She did, or so I thought.
Recently, I browsed through her email and noticed emails to him asking to talk to him because she really needed to. I checked back every now and then and he finally wrote back today or yesterday or something. And it seems like they're talking again, or trying to. I'm f-en pissed right now, and don't know what to do. I seen in some other emails before that, when she was trying to get rid of him, that she kissed him 4 or 5 times!! She also may have taken off the ring that I bought her (not engagment, just a little gift but she treats it like one) while she was around him.
I want to call her out on the whole thing. But I went through her email to find everything. But if I didn't, she could be behind my back doing something. And why is she talking to him? When he came back in her life, everything got messed up again, and now she's trying to bring him back? How do I call her out on all of this. The other night we were driving somewhere and ended up talking about him, and I asked if she had talked to him. She's like, "why would I do that and fuck everything up again?" There was a long pause, and she was like, "what brought that up? You had to ask for a reason." I wanted to go off on her but I couldn't.
I love her alot. I really do, but I can't play these games. How can I call her out. I was thinking of opening a new email and sending me a message about her doing stuff, and then showing her and asking if it's true, you know, like an annoymous letter and such. I don't know. What do you guys think?