[eclipsed at 3am]

does he know where you live and go to work and/or school? why dont you just demand a race the next time you see him. if you say lets race then and he starts talking shit just say "no...meet me in the street or else stay the hell away from me" or something like that. dont let up, and dont let him direct the convo anywhere else until he either gives up or meets you somewhere. i think after 2 years, you deserve to be a little pushy.