Picked up what I was told to be the proper relay this morning from a technician at Hillcrest Volkswagen, installed. Took door apart and hooked a 3 prong male end back into lock mechanism traced wires back into car and found a red/white wire coming out of door port to be cut (probably by the flippin sweet mechanic) and the other end from car had a female connector on it. So I went and got some bullet connectors, cut wire and intalled (only could get about an 1/8" of bare wire off door port) and alarm still will not disarm. So two questions: does it matter which wire ends you put male or female on? and when the alarm is disarmed the light on the radio stops blinking correct?
