Yeah, I think the "Stick" might take a bit of getting used to, I definitely would like to get a feel for it before buying, but the prices on ebay are probably cheaper so I may just go that route instead, and then hope I like it.
I am looking at the the Ichibahn Drive series, maybe in the gun metal color to better match my interior. But I may shop around to find something similar from another brand, who knows. But if I go down to the shop, I may just find something else that I really like and get it instead.
I can see the similarites with the different shift knob resembling something else.

Your girl was watching out for your manliness making sure you didn't get to comfortable with a stick in your hand.
But we'll see, I think in the next few days I'll have something new, and I'll update with what I got.