Do you have any brothers? Cousins? Good friends? There's always power in unity of many. I don't care what people say, you mess with one guy in our family, you mess with the whole clan. Take some of you buddies in several car loads, and have a hot-headed friend/cousin talk to this big guy, "you pick on my friend/brother one more time, your mother's going to find your head in a dumpster,
son." Corleone style always works, and is fool-proof, especially with such bullies. Always worked for me