okay im about to break something. im trying to install a panasonic cd player into a 98 4dr civic lx, but the harnesses i bought arent matching up with the factory harnesses. i went to best buy and told them that i needed the harness for a 98 civic and they gave me the one im trying to use, but it wont match up. is there a secret im unaware of? all i know is that i just spent two hours taking half of my dash off to install this cd player and im not going to sleep until this cd player gets installed