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Originally Posted by losingxposer
Now when i get home from work...she is off with her other guy friends...at the movies, swimming at the beach..or shit like that. I know that they are her friends and whatnot.
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I am sorry, but in my book, that's a no no.
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These "guy friends", unless gay, are definitely out of bounds in my personal rules for a relationship. At a point, there can be no differentiation or seggregation of testosterone from platonic sincerity. And, swimming? Uhuh, time-out please. Come on, I'm a guy, I spend a lot of me time with my buddies at bars, in school, at the game, etc. I
know the way we think, and when there's a lone female in our midst, more than a significant majority of the fellas view that lady as nothing more than a piece of meat.
You need to have a talk with her. It's different when she's out in a group with an equal ratio of both sexes, or you are accompanying her. But to be the only female in the middle of a sausage fest with men you don't know?
No sir, I think not . And I set the same rules for myself, in a serious relationship. If I were to get any sort of flak regarding my requests, I would dump the girl the next day, as that would represent a core difference in the fundamentals of a relationship. There are very few rules in my book, but this would be in the top three for sure. Because, you see, it'll never end. Gradually, it becomes okay for the woman to think she can have sleepovers at the "freinds" houses, etc...the list is endless.
It's a simple abstract for me, really: The woman to whom I devote my time, love, and money, is
mine. I will treat her like a queen and protect her like the jewel in the crown. Another man
looks at her funny, I will rip him and his entire progeny to shreds. So yes. I guess that means no more long nights out with the "boys". Just a personal 2 cents.
