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Originally Posted by J_Swigz

everyone pretty much stated what I think on the matter. If you keep looking at it as 'well, there is a hotter girl, I could get hotter,' Then you'll never be happy with what you have. I love my girlfriend because she's hella smart, great personality, keeps me on my toes (in the good way) and of course, is attractive to me.

Are there 'hotter' girls? Yes. Do I notice them? Of course, I'm a guy with eyes. Do I ever think I should get one of these hotter girls because they might be more physically attractive? Not really. I'm happy with my girlfriend and think she is beautiful and love her to pieces . I don't need to the "hottest thing on the block" to be happy, you know?

Now, another thought I have is, don't let anyone necessarily dismiss you as shallow or dismissing of your woman's worth, because I know (being a guy) how guys can sometimes work. Trust me on this, when you find a girl that you are truly happy with, while you might see a girl that is 'hotter,' the woman in your life will still always be the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, and that is all that matters.

I have to say thats is one of the best posts I have read when it comes to relationship posts in here. Very sincere and to the point. Kudos to you man, hope you and your girl stay happy with each other. You got a good head on your shoulders J. You give the rest of us guys a good name.

and what qute says is correct. its not about the looks.

TS out