[highteknology]

one word of advice i would give you is that you consider the fact that you may find someone else. either at these concerts or just walkin around the mall or something. things happen sometimes when you get ridiculously faded.

this is gonna sound harsh (i don't mean for it to but why sugar coat it) don't pass up some of THE best years of your life hoping that if/when you go visit her that it will just pick up from where you two left off. she is gonna meet other guys you are gonna meet other girls. simply put. you'll get lonely, and not just in a sexual way, but having some one there to talk to, just to do the normal things that couples do. don't let someone half way around the globe control what you do simply because you are holding onto a string of hope.

sorry to put it that way but better than beating around the bush. plus i was in a situation like this. granted my gf didn't move across the ocean but still it was hard but once you learn that you can move on it gets better.