i agree, just be yourself. a girl who doesn't like who you are isn't worth being with anyways. just start out small too, you don't have to blow her away and wow her with your first conversation. show her what a nice, cool guy you are and trust me, she'll definetely want to talk to you more. and just like oz said, don't put us ladies up on a pedestal. as amazing as we are, it'll only make us seem less attainable, which is not what you want. try thinking of a few things you could say to them beforehand, that way you feel a little more prepared. maybe even practice saying it on ur way to work to get the jitters out. w/e works for you. so go get'em tiger