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Originally Posted by capricorn
I don't know about you guys but from what this sounds like, you're trying to make a single grand gesture to profess your feelings for/towards her.
What I'm saying is why not give her a small card (an e-greeting from yahoo or similar) or listen to her and suprise her with something small based on conversation. I believe its about getting to know her and expressing interest in her as a person and her life... multiple small nudges in this direction would probably work better than a single grand gesture.
It really also might depend on how old you are too. Spending time after work at a bar or having a lunch date works well in my life as I'm fairly busy with work and other such obligations and free time is hard to come by.
The most simplest thing that I've found out is that you don't have to guess if she's into you or not. Ninety-nine percent of the time, the other person will make it painfully clear that they're into you. You just have to give him/her an opportunity to do so.
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neh, its just that im being a real big wuss with this girl, i dunno why. I'd love to hit the bars, except she's 19 so that doesnt work. It probably *is* painfully clear to anyone but me, but, heh what can i do.