[david-b]

Ok, first of all, break your sentences up alittle more. It's kinda confusing at times here.

The thing to do it to buy a wire tester with a little light on it, and test each wire to see what each one does. I don't know exactly what each wire does in our cars, so you just have to test them.

It sounds to me like you hooked the one side up wrong to begin with, which is why it's not working properly. Just try them out and see which one works.