OK, I actually started pulling the batt loose so i can inspect all the wires near the SBEC. Dark now.(no garage)
As for the ASD relay, if its the one i think it is, I even pulled it loose, tried a different, good relay, and I also jumpered 87 and 30 wile trying to start. But if the relay wont let power to everything, why would the fuel pressure still be there when cranking? Also I got code 33 and 42. 42 is no asd relay voltagesense at controller or auto shutdown relay control circuit. 33 isA?C clutch relay circuit. I think I got those codes from me messing with the relays tho. Is it possible for the SBEC to kill the coil but not everything else after the asd relay?? Is .7 ohms too high for the primary side of coil pack???