[indyram]

If you are happy with were you are at then no worries, like has likely happened in the past this too would pass. I can relate to where this is coming from, unfortunately my marriage isn't in the best of shape. Kids definately have a large impact on the whole situation. Unfortunately for too many people it becomes just about the kids. I come from divorced parents and it sucks. However, if the parents were to stay together only in light of the kids and the marriage/relationship wasn't worth a damn, then I think it will end up hurting the kids in the long hall. I have been torn in both directions as my marriage has been on the rocks for a while and I haven't even been married for long. Plus there is another woman who I am very much attracted to, even though she is just a really good friend. I got a little off topic, but even if it were to work out with the mystery woman it shouldn't be about leaving due to her, but rather because the marriage is that catastrophic if you will. Hopefully that made sense.