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Let's say you are in a relationship for years, say over 6. Let's even say you're married, have 2 kids, and you're 40 something...with a loving wife, nice marriage...etc..etc..

NOW, you come in contact with a women of your age or younger in which you have an IMMEDIATE attraction too.. I'm not talking about a great pair of legs, a beautiful face, a heavenly smile....I'M talking about a feeling in you that says I WANT TO BE WITH HER FOREVER. A strong crush, almost like you feel you've waited all your life for her.....it's a love at first sight kinda deal.

What would you do....? Would you put to shame your family and go after this person, divorce, etc. I'm not talking about a 7 minutes dry hump in the back of your seat behind Mcdonalds....This women just intrigues you the way your lover used to....although the flame has sort of run out in your relationship...it's just everyday stuff, boring marriage etc...

In case you're wondering what made me ask this, well....American Beauty.. I just got finished watching that movie for like the 10th time. Before typing this i was reading about people with strong crushes although they where happily married.

My simple belief is that there is always a "love at first sight" so to speak. EVEN if you got together with one of the "first sight" kind of people, sometimes there will be another that throws a munky wrench in your sh*t.

Basically it all comes down to what you want, selfish yeah...but in this life your soul and being is simply that, YOUR OWN.