First off the Neuspeed sports are a good choice between, a lowered stance and a little, firmer ride.
The reason you need a camber kit is because of this
http://www.hondavision.com/allignmenttech.htm
This answers your camber question.
As for mating the srings to shocks, the choice is yours.
How do you plan on driving?
If you want comfort and adjustabilty?
Tockico Illuminas
If you want a stiffer ride but still comfortable, but more of performance oriented ride.
Bilstein Sport, or KYB AGX
For thr most aggressive out of the box adjustable shocks
Koni Yellows