Well since you twisted my arm I'll post my wish list.
I keep it with me on my HS Visor so I can update it and modify it when I want.
(It's in the general order of what I'll purchase, some prices are estimates)
Xterra Upgrades
-Phase 1-(work avalable parts)
Bug Deflector
22817 ventshade $21
KC backup lights
#517 $48
Light bar roof rack $81
www.xterraparts.com $81
KC Daylighters
735-2384 switch kit 2 lights $36
1609 100w flood single $41x2=$82
623 385,000 cp $90/pair
Aircraft light switches
Air controler
www.xterraparts.com $70
-Phase 2-(must have)
BFG M/T's 31s $515
3in suspension lift
SLR New springs, no torsions $1395
Calmini $800?
Steering ideler arm reinforcement
Calmini $32
Sway bar disconnects
Calmini rear $70
steering stabilizers
spencerlowracing $84w/hardware
www.4x4parts.com $70w/hardware
www.gorancho.com $60
Onboard air compressor
4wheelparts warehouse ARB$200
Quick air 1& quadraflate $200
-Phase 3-(armor)
Rock sliders rocker panel guards
www.nissan-offroad.com $300
Skid plates
www.skidplates.com $665 all 4
Bumper
www.purenissan.com $630
-Phase 4-(electric power)
Battery isolater
782-1768 $27
Napa Exide Orbital $69
Dual Batteries $50
High output alternator $200
MSD Ignition $400
-Phase 5-(Heavy Duty)
Winch (already have)
Torsion Bars $150
Revolver shackles $200
Rear locker $600
Front Locker $600
-Phase X-(misc)
steel horse
plastic tail boxes 56500 $92
Quadra-flate
www.4x4now.com$89.95
Max axe tool $150
Trans/Oil cooler combo
462013 7x15x1.5 $42
462613 10.7x15x1.5 $73
Subwoofer and New sound system $500
Neoprene seats @front only
www.xterraparts.com$150
Nissan sport exhaust $100
calmini
Pull pal $200
Auto qauge gauges
301-1044 2in w/amps $21