[Ridenour]

Wow, this douche sounds like a real needy wussbag, no offense. He's sounds like a major touchy-feely lost puppy. I think he's so touchy and feely and shit because he's afraid you might not like him, or he might lose you if he's not. If you don't want him to be all over you like that, I don't think telling him is really going to change it. Your best bet would be to just not respond / reject his advances when he tries to cuddle. Sit forward, pull back, ect. He'll get the picture that it makes you uncomfortable and that you don't like it - actions speak louder then words - he'll learn to not do it.